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I feel like i try to keep things interesting but she doesnt try at all and then talks about how the spark is gone. Its really feeling one sided and i wouldnt want anything more than to be with her and my son for the rest of my life. I would be destroyed if we ended up seperating because im so attached but should i Single wives looking sex tonight Albury-Wodonga trying when she only sees me as a friend and not a lover?

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In the meanwhile you can begin to gain self confidence knowing you are taking control of the situation. Always kill her with slmething, while at the same time holding to your standards.

She I dont want anymore fantasy i want something real realize…. Very one sided After being told the spark is gone. How and did you distance yourself? A year and 7 months later and I am also in the same boat as the four people above.

This time, I was convenienced I had found my true soulmate. But everyday I am proved wrong. It hurts. So much, i wish i could just turn my humanity off just like how they do it on vampire diaries shiz.

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Good luck and God bless. A year and a couple of months and my relationship is becoming a fantasy bond. He no longer acts or does the things he did when we first met.

I started getting upset when i started noticing and it lead us into arguments. Now its different. Have you broken up somehing him? Does this kind of feeling pass overtime?

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Because I have exactly the same situation. I feel like I am the only one always wanting to be with him, talk to him. I just miss the old us. They ask questions sont try and gauge whether I love him or not, but nothing ever matches up. Maybe a break would help us sort out some of our issues? Totally at a loss as to what to do. I feel as if im the only one who tries so hard to make our relationship work, but its worthless how can i respect a man that calls me horrible names, disrespects me in public and speaks to me like he I dont want anymore fantasy i want something real How can i love a man that shows no affection.

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The way he talks, how he treats me, and in public I hate going anywhere with him.