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I don't know what to do. I recently discovered that my boyfriend of eight years has joined an online dating hookup site. He is wanting to meet a man to have oral sex with. He is straight.
How do I deal with this? I'm asking for your gut reaction, your first take—no, wait.
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Maybe I'm asking for your second take. Set aside the possible betrayal, the sneaking around, the hookup app.
Just for a moment, BLOW, just as a thought experiment.
What I want to know, BLOW, is how you feel about being with a guy who appears to be at least a little bisexual—or, fuck, maybe not. Anyway, BLOW, how you deal with this depends on how you feel about iti. I feel so betrayed. I thought we had a wonderful sex life.
Is there Free horny women Amarillo that maybe I could do to satisfy this curiosity? Well, if you're not sucking his cock, BLOW, you could start there—because, hey, if he's curious about blowjobs because he isn't getting them, getting them might go a long way toward satisfying his curiosity. But you say you have a wonderful sex life, BLOW, and I'm going to take your word for that—and I'm gonna assume "wonderful" includes mutual oral sex.
Before I go any further: I want to affirm your feelings. If he went through with this— if you two have a monogamous commitment I'm assuming you do and if he got his cock sucked by some dude and the jury is still out on that —then you were definitely betrayed.Housewives Looking Sex TX Stockdale 78160
I'm stressing those "ifs" because some people join hookup sites to fantasize, not actualize. Not everyone who joins a hookup site intends to do any hooking up. Some people just want the virtual strokes and ego boost that comes with being wanted by someone who doesn't have "wants me" in their job description.
That said, BLOW, most people who join hookup sites intend to hookup and the rest have at least contemplated hooking up. But if contemplating something makes us guilty of it Because obviously you are.Naughty Sex Lawai Hawaii
But you need to into that convo with some clarity about what you want—besides him living up to the monogamous commitment he made you—and some clarity about how you feel gyy being with him if he's bi or bicurious or heteroflexible. How would you have reacted Could you be with a bisexual guy? Discuss the offense first, the new fact second.
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